Is the sexual orientation of a man or woman determined at birth or is it a willed choice subject to change?

5 June 2001
By Rory Leishman
The London Free Press

The Supreme Court of Canada has entertained no doubts on this issue. In Canada (Attorney General) v. Ward, 1993, it unanimously decreed that sexual orientation is, "an innate or unchangeable characteristic" like race, sex, gender and colour.

In a modified statement two years later in Egan v. Canada, the Court said it had, "no difficulty accepting that whether or not sexual orientation is based on biological or physiological factors, which may be a matter of some controversy, it is a deeply personal characteristic that is either unchangeable or changeable only at unacceptable personal costs."

The court offered no medical evidence for such assertions. In these ideologically driven decisions, it proceeded on its own to read sexual orientation into the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms as a prohibited ground of discrimination.

Regardless, are our judicial masters right to insist that sexual orientation is either unchangeable or changeable only at unacceptable personal costs?

Dr. Robert Spitzer has offered the best evidence yet on this subject. He is a professor of psychiatry, Chief of Biometrics at Columbia University and an internationally renowned expert on homosexuality who led the taskforce that deleted homosexuality from the official list of mental disorders in the diagnostic manual of the American Psychiatric Association in 1973.

In an address to the annual meeting of the American Psychiatric Association on May 9, Spitzer disclosed the results of a study he led of 143 men and 57 women who had undergone a significant shift from homosexual to heterosexual attraction that had lasted at least five years. The men in this study had rarely or never felt any opposite-sex attraction prior to beginning the process of change, while the women had been less extreme in their previous homosexual orientation.

Nonetheless, 66 per cent of the men and 44 per cent of the women had managed to maintain a, "loving and emotionally satisfying heterosexual relationship" for at least one year prior to being interviewed by a member of Spitzer's study team.

The findings came as quite a surprise to Spitzer. He told The New York Times: "Like most psychiatrists, I thought that homosexual behaviour could be resisted--but that no one could really change their sexual orientation. I now believe that's untrue -- some people can and do change."

While acknowledging that some homosexuals have been harmed by failed attempts to change their sexual orientation through therapy, Spitzer maintains that many of the subjects in his study were despondent, and even suicidal, for the opposite reason -- "precisely because they had previously thought there was no hope for them, and they had been told by many mental health professionals that there was no hope for them, they had to just learn to live with their homosexual feelings."

Parents, teachers, supreme court judges and other citizens should take note: Homosexuality, bisexuality and sexual promiscuity are no more fated at birth than alcoholism. They are all more or less willed behaviours subject to change.

What, then, should parents do if they are told by a son or daughter that he or she is troubled by homosexual feelings? First, of course, these parents should remind their child that he or she is loved unconditionally.

Second, loving parents should make sure their child gets reliable, scientifically sound information about the mutability of sexual orientation and the lethal risks of taking up a homosexual lifestyle. An excellent source of such information is freely available on the web at www.freetobeme.com

Concerned parents should also consult the web site of the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality at www.narth.com This is not a religious organization. It's an association of medical professionals that maintains a referral list of licensed therapists offering sexual reorientation therapy in Canada, the United States, Europe and Australia.

Of course, many people are content to maintain a homosexual or bisexual lifestyle. Therapy is not for them.

However, many other homosexuals and bisexuals are deeply depressed. They should not despair: The Spitzer study confirms that effective therapies are available to help them achieve a profound and enjoyable change in sexual orientation.

Rory Leishman
836 Wellington St., London, Ontario, Canada N6A 3S7
Home/Office Phone: 519-439-2676
Home Page: http://www.roryleishman.com/

 

 

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